Why Do You Become A Victim When You Are The Protagonist?

We know you often think the world is against you. You think bad luck hits you without consideration and that nobody cares. However, you forget that you are the protagonist of your own life.

Adopting the victim role can be very comfortable. So, complaining is something we’ve learned extremely well. However, with that attitude, we will never be able to move forward.

We will remain in a comfort zone that does nothing but feed our belief that we can’t do anything to change things.

In fact, we need to step forward and start walking. Despite the fears, despite the laziness.

Why do you become a victim when you are the protagonist?

As you are the protagonist of your life, you choose how to live it. Therefore, when you become a victim, you must keep in mind that this was your choice.

You chose the option that many have chosen. Maybe that’s why you may be the concern of your relatives. Those close people who love you so much and who will regret your situation.

They won’t know that you chose to whine, complain, but not move from where you are. Because of course, although life is difficult sometimes, if you want to, you can get the best version of what happens to you.

Any situation you deem negative provides an opportunity. Sometimes it can be the opportunity to undertake; in others, learning to manage your emotions.

Remember that you are the protagonist, you are projecting the life you are living, so whether you like it or not… you created it.

If you decide to regret your resignation, there you are. Each time you submit your resume, your lack of energy and pessimism will push new job opportunities in your path.

However, if you face this positively, as a way of leaving a job you didn’t like or looking for new companies that allow you to grow and improve, your attitude will be very different from the previous one.

Your attitude will attract what you need

If you maintain a positive attitude, you will attract positive things. Although they take a while to show up. Even if you’ve lost hope, stay positive.

Think, for example, that a disappointment in love made you choose anyone you like over someone who will ultimately hurt you.

Complaining, generalizing, claiming that all people are the same and that they will make you repeat the same patterns or that no one comes into your life with whom you can start a beautiful relationship.

On the other hand, if you’re positive, if you learn what happened and don’t make mistakes in the past, an unexpected day will attract someone you really deserve.

Because you are the protagonist of your life. Then  everything you think and believe will eventually manifest  in the life you live.

You are not a victim of circumstances

Always remember that  you are not a victim of circumstance. Everything you describe as negative doesn’t just happen to you. Also, if you talk and meet other people, you will find that many are in worse shape than you are.

Bad luck is not reproducing with you. Everything bad doesn’t happen to you. Life has good things and bad things. Do you know the positive side of the most negative moments? It is with them that we learn the most.

When everything is fine, we press the “autopilot” button. However, when everything goes wrong we value what we neglect. Let’s focus on the present and take some time to reflect.

Don’t feel victimized and take the positive part of everything that happens to you. Because you are the protagonist of your life and reality will be how you want to see it.

If you decide to take the role of the victim, you will be given thousands of opportunities so that you can feel more and more victim of everything. About your boss, your partner, your health…

But if you choose to become what you are, the protagonist of your life, you will have many opportunities to grow, learn and advance despite all the problems that address you.